The most redemptive thing we can do for another person
is perhaps just listen and try to understand what he or she needs to say.
~ Richard Rohr
When you love someone, it is never too soon to say
“I love you”, or premature to say “Thank you,” “I forgive you”, or
“Will you please forgive me?”. Express forgiveness, gratitude and affection. Healing and wholeness are always possible.
~ Ira Byock
Good communication is a vital component of healthy relationships. Ageism conveyed through Elder Speak can limit opportunities for older adults to achieve their health and social goals and undermine their sense of competence. In addition to speaking respectfully to all generations, all of us can learn better listening skills. Research shows that concerns expressed by older adults are more likely to be dismissed – perhaps you’ve seen those raised eyebrows and rolled eyes. Reading fiction and nonfiction can provide us with information and vicarious experiences that help us manage life and increase our empathy. And writing, of course, opens pathways of self-understanding and social impact.
Communication & Aging
Ellen Ryan’s Kinanen Lecture: Writing through Adversity.
Negative Effects of Elder Speak
Finding the Smile: Assertiveness for Family Caregivers
Ten Tips for Effective Communication
With this shadow photo,
I bid you adieu
Ellen